A dementia-friendly coffee morning in Barnsley has proved so popular that it has reached capacity for three consecutive months.
It's Not Me, It's The Alzheimer's was launched by Deangate Care Home in Mapplewell to provide a stigma-free environment for those with dementia and their families, friends and carers. The event is held once a month at The Old Ivy Shed, also in Mapplewell, and gives people in the earlier stages of dementia the chance to socialise and share cakes and hot drinks.
Rachael Addy, activities coordinator at Deangate Care Home and organiser of the event, said:
There aren't many places people can go that cater for the early stages of dementia. We wanted to create something for the person living with dementia and for the person caring for them. It's about building a safe community of people who understand what each other is going through.

She added:
Someone living with dementia can meet other people in a similar position, while those caring for them can make connections too. But we don't just sit around talking about dementia. It's a stigma-free environment where people can enjoy each other's company without judgement, while hopefully gaining more understanding along the way.
Jon Crossland, who runs The Old Ivy Shed with his partner Becky, said:
I love them coming in and we love seeing people happy. My grandma had dementia, so I understand the importance of getting out into the community. It's great to be able to help break the stigma around dementia.
The latest event was attended by Diane Hinchcliffe, local services manager from the Alzheimer's Society, who discovered the event through a Facebook post.
Norma Heaversidge, 97, attended the latest gathering and said:
It was lovely. Even though I haven't got Alzheimer's, I feel like everyone can come along and take something away from it.
Joan Giggal, 96, highlighted the social aspect of the café. She said:
It's lovely getting out and meeting people. We can chat to our friends.
Barry Skirrow, 86, added:
It's nice to be around like-minded people in a different setting. I spent all my life outside, so it's great to get out and see the community.
The next event will take place at The Old Ivy Shed, Mapplewell, on Monday 21st September, from 10am to 11:30am.



